July 23, 2025

Why Men Want Sex When They're Stressed—And Women Don’t"

Why Men Want Sex When They're Stressed—And Women Don’t"
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Season 1

Why do men seek sex when stressed, while women need to be relaxed first? In this powerful episode, Dr. Eldred Taylor explains the science, hormones, and spiritual truths behind male and female intimacy. Discover how cortisol, progesterone, testosterone—and ancient wisdom—shape connection, conflict, and healing in relationships. A must-watch for couples seeking deeper understanding.

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Here's your host, Doctor Eldred Taylors.

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Hello, Hello, good morning, and I am doctor Taylor. I

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am the Spiritual MD, I am the hormone doctor, and

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I am the creator of the Ageless Blueprint. And if

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this is the first time you've been here, welcome, Welcome.

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If you have seen this before, as you notice, I

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have a new backdrop here. It's all on that side.

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And I told you I want to try and improve

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this every time. So I got a nice professional backdrop

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so that I don't have to worry about blurring something

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behind me, because this is kind of my sacred space.

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This is my extra bedroom. My wife is a night out.

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I'm an early bird, so I like to get up

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early and get my work done. So I didn't want

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you to really see what my little sacred space looks like.

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So I got this backdrop. But anyway, I hope you

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like it. You can comment on it and tell me

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what you think. But anyway, this is a good episode.

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This might be one that I have to say is

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eighteen or over because we're going to talk about sex,

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and we're going to talk about sex and relationships and

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why sex can be such a controversial Sometimes it can

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cause problems in relationships, and primarily it's because we don't

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understand the difference between what happens when a person gets

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to X chromosomes and when a person has an xcent

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a Y chromosome. And what I'm trying to say is

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that men and women approach sex differently, they think about

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sex differently, and the outcome of conversations about sex end

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up being very different, which can cause arguments and breakups.

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So I think this is really important. And the reason

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why I'm doing this is that a patient, a cancer patient,

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asked me, Hey, if I take this progesterone, will it

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help my libido? And I said, look, it should because

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progesterone helps you to relax, and we're going to talk

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about that. But I told her, I said, look, men

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have sex so they can relax, and women have to

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be relaxed in order to want to have sex. So

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see that's where the problem goes. Where the problem lies

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the men. If they have a stressful day, and if

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they come home and their wife sees that he's stressed out,

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she can say, come on, big boy, you know, let's

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go upstairs and let's take care of you. And they

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have sex. And afterwards he's relaxed. He could fall asleep.

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He doesn't care about what happened during that day. The

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birds are singing, sweeter, the meal tastes better, everything is better. Now.

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When a woman is stressed, she can't relax, okay, but

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she has to be relaxed in order to want to

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have sex. But the problem is men think women are

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like them. So a man comes home and his wife,

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a wife is complaining about the kids, and how the

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dinner was burnt, and how the contractor came and messed

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up her yard and all these things. And he says,

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all right, baby, come on, I'm gonna make you feel better.

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He starts rubbing on and she wants to hit him

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over the head with a frying pant because she's like,

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get away from me. Can't you see I'm stressed. I

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don't want to have sex right now. So then he

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goes off in poups and he's upset, and now we've

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got a problem. Now, I'm going to tell you that

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happens more than you think, and I'll tell you it

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used to happen to me before I began to understand

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my wife and understand women. Now you have to understand

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I was in OBGYN for fifteen sixteen years before I

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started doing holistic medicine, so all I talked to was women.

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So I won't say I know how women think that.

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No man knows that, but I feel like I've heard

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a lot of the complaints from women, and that's the problem.

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They are not interested in sex when they are stressed.

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So let's try and understand this. You know, I'm a

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scientist and I'm a spiritual medce. So I'm going to

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talk about both of those, how science and physiology and

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hardmones all of that create this system where men and

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women look at sex differently. All right, So let's go

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to the first lab. So why men want sex when

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they're stressed and women don't. I just kind of explained

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it to you, But we're going to go a little

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bit deeper. So by understanding the biological foundations of intimate relationships,

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we can transform how we connect. In this presentation, we're

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going to explore the fascinating hormone differences that drive men

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and women contrasting responses response to stress, and how these

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differences impact desire and intimacy. And this is what I

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tell people all the time. Men are men and women

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are women, and that's how it's going to be. And

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I men, Hey, if you don't like what your wife

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is doing, then you're going to have to marry a man.

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If you want her to act like you, you're going

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to have to marry a man because women are going

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to behave like women, all right, because they have certain

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innate things that are in them. In order to keep

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civilization going. Okay, somebody has to be a nurturer. Somebody

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has to be the actor person who goes out and provides.

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And this is how life is, This is how nature is.

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If you look at the animal kingdom, male animals and

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female animals have different roles. When we went to we

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went to Africa, kingy in Tanzania like ten or twelve

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years ago, and the lions the male they are one

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of the protectors and the women go out and hunt.

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So different. You know, different animals may change those roles,

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but different sexes in all nature, they have different roles,

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all right. So through the next line, I think I

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control it all right. So what we're gonna learn today

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is a biological difference. Is how stress affects male and

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female libido differently through hormonal pathways, harmonal interactions, the critical

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roles of testosteron, proges and cortisol and sexual desire. And

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you know that's all I talk about is how hormones

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they affect everything and especially cortisol. The stress connection is

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definitely in play right here. So relationship impact, Why hormonal

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misunderstandings create conflict and how to restore the connection because

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I will tell you know, why do men cheat? Why

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do women stay home? And they take care of the

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children most of the time, and they can they can

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live without a man. Okay, they can live without a man.

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There you see all these single mothers around who survive

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and thrive and their kids do well. And men can

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do that, but they're not they're not open enough to

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do it because both male and females, they have what

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we call divine masculine and divine feminine quality. So that's

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why you know, if if a wife dies, a man

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can take on the role of a nurturer. It's not

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what has been developed in a man, because early on

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we tell men this is what men do, and this

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is what women do. But men and women have these

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same what we call divine energies, this active energy which

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is male, and then this nurturing, quiet uh energy that

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is called the feminine, the divine feminine. So by understanding

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these biological differences and these spiritual differences, couples can move

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from frustration to compassion and develop strategies that work with

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and not against their hormonal reality. So if you know,

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it's all about understanding, I mean, that's what marriage is about,

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is understanding the person and the differences in that person

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and how those differences can actually enhance a relationship and

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not cause conflict. You know the song by John Legend,

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he's talking about you know, I love your perfect imperfections,

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and you know he thinks it's an imperfection. The person

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is saying, this is just who I am. But you

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have to love what you think are the perfect imperfections

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in your mate. All right, let's go to this one.

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All right, So in a male libido understress, Now I

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showed you like this hormonal pathway. Now, when men are

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under stress, testosterone doesn't go toward cortisol. Now progesterone does.

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Cortisol steals progesterone away, and it's a whole chemical form.

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It's a whole chemical pathway that shows this. But the

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funny thing is that when men are understressed, quortisol doesn't

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there necessarily steal testosterone. But cortisol can cause a problem,

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but usually it doesn't. But unlike female heart, male testosterone

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levels don't immediately drop during short term stress periods. Doing

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short term stress periods. Now, if it's long term, testosterone

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can drop, and I'll talk about that I think a

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little bit later. So when you have this testosterone's it's spiritual.

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It's like fire Okay, men have this energy that's considered

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to be active or it's like fire. And again, when

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you look at these ancient philosophies, they looked at men

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like the sun and women like the moon because women

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had these cycles and men were like fire. They wanted

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to go out and be active and do something and

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create something. So how do you put out fire? It

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has to go to water, and women are like water.

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So let me tell you. You know, I'm gonna get

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into some of this because this is called ancient ageless blueprint,

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and I went to Egypt to learn these ancient philosophies.

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So what they look at that women are like water. Okay,

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they cool the fire. And so that's what you got

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to think is that men have stress and they want

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to go and be cooled off with water. And so

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that's that's what happened. But the water has to be

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steel and calm. You don't want to be cooled off

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by our hurricane. Okay, you don't want to be cooled

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off by a hurricane. You want the water to be

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steel and quiet, and a woman has to feel like

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that in order to accept and cool off the fire. Okay,

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that sounds deep, but it's really it's really beautiful, all right.

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So sexual activity triggers dopamine and oxytocin release, and dopamine

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is what gives you pleasure, and oxytocin makes you want

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to be close to someone and that counteracts the corters

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all effects. So the man is looking to be cooled off.

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He wants to feel some relief, he wants to be

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close to you, but he's looking for or sex to

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bring that closeness, all right. With women, it's the other

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way around. They have to be close in order to

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want to have sex. They have to feel the oxytocin first,

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they have to feel the dopamine first before they want

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to have sex. And men they have sex so they

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can feel the dopamine and they can feel the oxytocin,

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and so for men it is a psychological escape. And

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sex provides both mental distractions so they can forget about

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the problems that they had at work or with you know,

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with whoever, and the emotional release from stressful situations. So again,

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a man can have an awful day and women you

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know this, and if you allow them to have sex

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with you, they forget about everything. If you want to

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stop an argument with a man, just tell them. Come on, baby,

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I'll make it up to you. Let's go upstairs and

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let's see what happens. He just immediately, just thinking about it,

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he gets a smile on his face. Because men are

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very visual. They can imagine, they can imagine, you know,

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a sexual scene, and their body will respond to it.

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If you don't think that your body responds to your thoughts.

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Ask a man if he thinks about sex, does his

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body respond in a certain way? And I think you

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know what I mean when you're talking about response. And

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just like a woman, if she's her thoughts will control

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her physiologic response. Okay, whether she becomes morshed and excited

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or whatever it can be, by the thought of feeling

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close to the man, all right, to her, to her spouse,

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or to her sexual partner, all right. The female libido understress,

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corta is all blocks progesterone. In one of the other videos,

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I showed you the hormonal pathway how hormones are rich

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from cholesterol and then it goes down this pathway. But

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when stress is involved, it takes a left turn and

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instead of making progesterone, it makes cortisol. Okay, so now

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her progesterone is down. Now, why is that important? Because

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stress hormones directly inhibited progesterone production, creating this hormonal imbalance.

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The nervous system shifts because progesterone is a calming, relaxing hormone.

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two weeks before your period, you get anxious and depressed.

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prioritizing survival over reproduction because it's saying, hey, look, I'm stressed.

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I can't be stressed out trying to carry a baby.

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Because remember, your body doesn't necessarily realize that there's birth

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control pills and condoms. It thinks that sex is for procreation,

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all right, But we look at it due to recreation. Now,

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I will tell you maybe as associated with recreation now,

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before birth control pills. In ancient times or before birth

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control pills, I mean, sex was very serious because it

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could always produce an offspring, so you had to look

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at it differently. And women look at sex primarily as

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pro creation.

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someone to procreate with, and she's looking for the strongest

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person in the tribe, all right.

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That's why women are going toward athletes or whatever, because

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they want to make sure that their offspring is strong

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enough to survive. Okay, and so oh, I see we

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have a question. But just hold on, rebel and I'll

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get some questions. So they want to make sure that

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their offspring is strong enough to survive. So they want

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to find the strongest male. And that's why athletes get

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all the women. All ar can handsome get all the women.

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They can't help it. It's their biology. Now, luckily, my

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wife settled for me, you know. So maybe I had

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some other characteristic that you know, that impressed her. But

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that's how that's how you have to understand. We are

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a part of nature. Okay, you got to understand that

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we are part of nature. So we act in a

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way to preserve nature. All right, So safety becomes priority.

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The female body requires feeling safe before sexual desire can activate. Again,

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they have to feel close to the man. They have

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to feel safe or their body is not going to

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respond when they have a hurricane going on. They don't.

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They can't receive what the man is trying to give them,

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all right, because you have to look at it is

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that the man provides the seed and the woman provides

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the fertile soil, and when there's chaos, the soul is

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not fertile, and the woman will actually stop ovulating to

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make sure she doesn't have a baby when there is

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a lot of chaos. And that's why women who go

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through the infertility work up a lot of times they

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don't get pregnant because it's so stressful. And once the

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infertility work up is over, then they have a baby

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because now the stress is gone. Now they're calm, Now

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the waters are still, and now they can accept the

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seed and now the soil is fertile again. All right,

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what do you think about that so far? Rebel?

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Oh my goodness, Oh my goodness, there's so many things

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going on here. It's it's it's almost like contradicts, yous

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are like a man has to be stressful or works

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performs better under stress, and a woman has to be calm.

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Well what if you're not matching up at that time?

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I mean, like this one's stressed, this one's calm, and you.

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Know, well, now, now the thing is is short term

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stress will make a man want to have sex. Now

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I'll talk about it. Long term stress and when cortisol

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is there. You know, consistently, a man's testosterone goes down

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because you have to think, okay, in nature, all right,

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if a man is fatigued and can't you know, be active,

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the body tries to conserve energy. So if it's a

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long term stress, like even men at war, because they

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have a long term stress, their testosterone goes down because

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the body is saying, hey, look you're tired. You're in

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this situation where you could be killed and you're not

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going to be able to provide for this baby. So hey,

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look I don't want you running around chasing women. So

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I'm going to take your testosterone away. So the jewel,

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you know that you'll conserve energy and don't waste it

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on sex, don't waste it on running around. So short

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term stress makes the man want sex. Long term stress

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takes away his testosterone. And I've seen many men come

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in my office who are on testosterone and they say,

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but I, you know, I still I'm stressed out at work.

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I got my wife is you know, it's all kinds

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of things are going on. And they say, I don't know,

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my libido is down, but this testosterone is working. I

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test their cortisol. I guarantee you they're burnt out and

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their body has shut down testosterone because their cortisol is low,

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and in that case, their libido goes down. All right,

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So so you know, I also say it's almost like

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God is like, uh made a had a joke. You know,

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It's like, hey, look this will be funny. Let me

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make men and women view sex differently, and let's see

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what happens. But it almost it is. It's like, why

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are you making a different wouldn't it be great if

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both people saw sex as a stress reliever, But hey don't.

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I don't know why, but that is just the way

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it is. Okay, So cortisol and progesterone tug of war

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and these women all right, So the visible effects is

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that they have less libido, and the surface cause is

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either as high quart as all the stress. But the

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underneath what it really is is they don't have enough progesterone. Okay,

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and then that causes the harmony and balance that all

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I'm always talking about. Now they're estrogen dominant, and now

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their nervous system is wholly disregulated, all right, so they're stress.

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Then what happens is they lose the vaginal lubrication. They

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don't their vagina's not relaxed. So now sex becomes painful now,

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and now your body always tries to resist pain or

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flee pain and go toward pleasure. And once a woman

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associates sex with pain, man, that's a tough thing to overcome.

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You can overcome it, but you have to you have

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to make it pleasurable. And if it's not pleasurable, I

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don't care how much a woman loves her husband, she's

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not going to want to have want to have sex.

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And that's more of a problem doing menopause. And I'll

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talk about how you can overcome that also. All right,

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so I know we have a couple of questions. Should

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I let me go to the questions now and then

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we'll move on.

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Okay, So the first question, what if a man has

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no imagination? That came in when you talked about you know,

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just mentioning, you know, and they go there, Well, what

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happens if a man has no imagination?

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Well, then you know that's the problem. You know. What

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I'm saying is men are very visual, whether it's a

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true vision that they see. You know, if a man

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sees an attractive woman with no clothes on or their

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body responds to it. Most most men will, they will,

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they will desire her, and then certain things can happen,

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and blood can go different places where it doesn't normally

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go or usually go. But that's what I'm talking about.

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Imagination is that a man can even imagine that, Hey,

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I think my wife is going to have sex with me,

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and their body responds to it. So if a man

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has no imagination, I don't know that's a problem because

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that's how you create things. You have to imagine it first.

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It has to be something in your man first in

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order for it to actually materialize. So I think we

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had one other candid woman's body make too much progesterone.

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What happens if it's done. It's very hard for a

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woman to make too much progesterone. Now, you can take

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too much progesterone. You can be prescribed too much progesterone.

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But when you look at the minstral cycle, the progesterone

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is made when you ovulate, and it's only made for

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the two weeks right before your period because it's waiting

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to see if it needs to promote a gestation or not.

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So it waits around for two weeks to see, if

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you're going to get pregnant, it reaches a peak. If

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you don't get pregnant, it goes away, and now you

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have another mistrial cycle, and it's art. It's all over again.

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Now a woman's body can make too much estrogen, or

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it can be exposed to too much estrogen. If now

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the ovaries don't necessarily make too much, but your fat

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tissue can make estrogen. And then you're exposed to so

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much estrogen in the food that you eat, in some

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of the cosmetics that you have, in the water that

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you drink. So it's hard to make too much progesterone

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or hard to be exposed to too much progesterone, but

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it's easy to be exposed to too much estrogen. All right,

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these thoughts of procreation, are they imagined or actual thoughts? No,

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it's an innate desire women. And I won't say any

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I don't say all women. You can't say all about

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anything because everybody's different. But the natural energy are blueprint

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of women is to look at sex as procreation for procreation.

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Men look at it as recreation. Okay, So that's the problem,

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all right, And so now here's the other issue. And men,

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you need to understand this. Once a woman pro creates

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and has a child, nurturing that child becomes her number

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one priority. Hands down. Sex falls down right above mopping

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the floor. That's how and men married men who have children,

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you can testify this, sex goes way down on the list.

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And some men get upset. They were like, oh, ever,

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since we had this baby, my wife, she doesn't seem

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to be as interested in sex anymore. Well, join the club, homeboy.

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I've been married for thirty nine years, and I had

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to realize that when we had our first child. Now,

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when she's trying to pro create, hey, she may be

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Johnny on the spot. Hey, let's go once she has

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that baby, if she has true maternal instincts. Now not

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every woman has overwhelming maternal instincts, but I'm just saying

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in general, once she has a child, nurturing is number one.

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And if that child is sick or that child needs anything,

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you are second fiddle. Just accept it, guys, Okay, the

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children come first. That's why if there's a problem, the

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woman says, hey, get out of here, I can do

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it by myself. Now, men are going to say that

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usually all right, and that's why you see all these

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single mothers, they're number number one priority is nurturing, and

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they don't like to have other men in their house.

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They don't need them. Okay, they don't need them all right. Now,

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a man, even if his wife passes away against the

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worse and now he's in the nurturing mode, he still

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is going to look for that fire to be cooled,

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whether he does it himself or he finds someone else

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who can cool the fire. That's what's going to happen,

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all right.

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Of one here, Now this might turn into a whole

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different show. Oh boy, Now we had someone ask this question.

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If a man has never had his own children, like,

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if he has the stepfather to children, do you feel

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that they understand that they don't come first? The children

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still come first.

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At he better understand, he better understand. Okay. That's why

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a lot of women will say, hey, look, I am

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not thinking about remarrying. I don't want another boyfriend until

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my children are out of the house. Okay, because they

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don't want anything to disrupt they're nurturing. Okay. Now, a man,

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if he married, he marries a woman who has children,

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he better accepts that those children are number one. She

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may like you love you, you know, and and accept her,

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accept you into the home. But hey, you start causing

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a problem with her children. See what happens. Okay, I'm

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just I'm just telling you what I know and what

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I've seen, and this is how these two sexes interact

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with each other. All right, So hey, it's almost it's

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tame for a commercial. This will be a good place

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to stop, and then we're going to talk about how

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we can fix this. All right.

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Okay, we're back. I'm doctor Taylor. We're back at the

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Ageis Blueprint and we're talking about how men and women

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approach sex when they are under stress. All right, So

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hopefully we've moved on, and so how can we fix this?

458
00:28:47.119 --> 00:28:50.440
How can we make this better and keep relationships together?

459
00:28:51.000 --> 00:28:54.759
So here's what happens when men and women don't understand

460
00:28:54.799 --> 00:28:59.759
these differences. Now he thinks she's not interested in me anymore,

461
00:29:00.200 --> 00:29:03.720
she doesn't find me attractive. Why does she always reject

462
00:29:03.759 --> 00:29:07.200
me when I need connection? See, he looks for sex

463
00:29:07.359 --> 00:29:12.279
to make the connection, and he feels rejected, unwanted, and disconnected.

464
00:29:12.680 --> 00:29:16.519
Now again, I'm not making any excuses for men who

465
00:29:16.680 --> 00:29:21.640
cheat on their wives. I'm not, but I'm saying this

466
00:29:20.759 --> 00:29:26.319
is how he's thinking, and he's wanting connection. And if

467
00:29:26.319 --> 00:29:29.680
he sees someone at the office or at a bar

468
00:29:30.359 --> 00:29:35.160
and it fulfills this role. If he's not totally committed

469
00:29:35.200 --> 00:29:39.319
and doesn't understand this, he even unconsciously. I told you

470
00:29:39.400 --> 00:29:43.680
ninety five percent of the things that you do are unconscious. Unconsciously,

471
00:29:44.119 --> 00:29:49.480
he's drawn drawn to the woman who is providing that

472
00:29:49.680 --> 00:29:53.559
connection for him, who's willing to have sex with him,

473
00:29:53.599 --> 00:29:57.839
to cool that fire and give him that connection. And

474
00:29:57.920 --> 00:30:01.480
you see how these men they will give up all

475
00:30:01.799 --> 00:30:06.400
their give up their family, their job, their career looking

476
00:30:06.519 --> 00:30:10.920
for that connection. And they know it's going to they

477
00:30:10.960 --> 00:30:13.640
know it's going to destroy their lives, and they still

478
00:30:13.839 --> 00:30:18.559
do it. And we wonder why it is an unconscious,

479
00:30:18.599 --> 00:30:24.160
subconscious desire that they have. Okay, So I'm not giving

480
00:30:24.160 --> 00:30:27.359
you excuse, but I'm telling you you can't understand why

481
00:30:27.480 --> 00:30:32.480
men will go and do this is because unconsciously they're

482
00:30:32.519 --> 00:30:36.680
doing it. If you're conscious of what's going on, you

483
00:30:36.759 --> 00:30:39.759
can control it. That's why it's so important to get

484
00:30:39.799 --> 00:30:43.359
in touch with your unconscious thoughts and feelings so that

485
00:30:43.440 --> 00:30:47.279
you don't destroy your life by having a mistress. And

486
00:30:48.079 --> 00:30:51.319
your wife takes you to the cleaners and tries to

487
00:30:51.400 --> 00:30:56.119
destroy you in court. Okay, So her perspective is he

488
00:30:56.200 --> 00:31:00.559
only wants physical intimacy. He doesn't see how overwhelmed I am.

489
00:31:01.039 --> 00:31:04.039
I'm overwhelmed and he's talking about sex. What is wrong

490
00:31:04.079 --> 00:31:07.359
with him? He's thinking from a man's point of view.

491
00:31:07.799 --> 00:31:10.839
Why can't he connect with me in other ways? First?

492
00:31:11.240 --> 00:31:15.519
And stop making me feel pressured and misunderstood and resentful.

493
00:31:16.079 --> 00:31:19.960
I'm telling you, if you guys can understand this, you

494
00:31:20.079 --> 00:31:23.920
can save a lot of marriage. And if you hear this,

495
00:31:24.440 --> 00:31:28.440
you can help your friends. Okay, this is so so, so,

496
00:31:28.440 --> 00:31:31.599
so so important. And the reason why I'm like this

497
00:31:31.680 --> 00:31:34.880
is because I had to learn this myself. It was

498
00:31:35.000 --> 00:31:40.319
almost ten years before I realized or I understood this.

499
00:31:40.839 --> 00:31:44.119
I felt the same way I'm a man. Once we

500
00:31:44.200 --> 00:31:48.079
had our first child thirty four years ago. This is

501
00:31:48.079 --> 00:31:51.400
how I felt, and then I had to understand. Now

502
00:31:51.920 --> 00:31:54.960
now I understand. When my wife is upset, I sit

503
00:31:55.039 --> 00:31:59.240
and I listen to her. I don't even think about sex.

504
00:31:59.319 --> 00:32:02.799
I don't mention, I don't I don't wink at her.

505
00:32:02.920 --> 00:32:06.880
I don't give her any indication that I'm thinking about

506
00:32:06.920 --> 00:32:11.880
anything other than listening to her. And men, that takes

507
00:32:11.960 --> 00:32:15.559
a lot of practice. It takes a lot of practice,

508
00:32:15.720 --> 00:32:18.599
and I'm just telling you if you don't, if you

509
00:32:18.680 --> 00:32:22.519
don't innately do it, I understand, but it's important if

510
00:32:22.559 --> 00:32:26.519
you want to maintain your relationship with your wife or

511
00:32:26.519 --> 00:32:31.319
with your significant other. All right. So practical solutions for

512
00:32:31.440 --> 00:32:36.279
couples to foster this connection. You can create emotional safety

513
00:32:36.319 --> 00:32:41.799
before physical intimacy. All right. So again, listen to her. Okay,

514
00:32:42.480 --> 00:32:46.000
just listen, see what she needs. And let me tell

515
00:32:46.039 --> 00:32:50.319
you another thing. Men, you can't build up browning points

516
00:32:50.400 --> 00:32:54.200
with women. Okay, you say, well, you know what's wrong?

517
00:32:55.079 --> 00:32:58.720
Last week? I brought you flowers? Well that was last week.

518
00:32:59.680 --> 00:33:02.279
What have you done for me lately? Who sang that

519
00:33:02.319 --> 00:33:06.519
song Janet Jackson or whatever. That's how women think. It's

520
00:33:06.519 --> 00:33:08.599
not about what you did in the past. It's about

521
00:33:08.599 --> 00:33:11.000
what you're doing right now. Are you listening to me

522
00:33:11.119 --> 00:33:15.359
right now? Did you give me flowers and a box

523
00:33:15.359 --> 00:33:18.400
of candy and wine right now? I know you did

524
00:33:18.480 --> 00:33:21.240
it two weeks ago, but that doesn't matter. See a man,

525
00:33:21.319 --> 00:33:23.720
he thinks, oh, hey, I did this, I built up this.

526
00:33:23.759 --> 00:33:26.440
I took her on vacation you know last month? That

527
00:33:26.519 --> 00:33:29.519
should you know? That should do me well for the

528
00:33:29.519 --> 00:33:33.079
next two months. No, No, that was the vacation two

529
00:33:33.119 --> 00:33:35.759
months ago. What have you done for me lately?

530
00:33:36.039 --> 00:33:36.359
All right?

531
00:33:36.519 --> 00:33:41.880
So help reduce her stress load. Practical support wash the dishes.

532
00:33:43.079 --> 00:33:45.960
I heard one woman say it's nothing that there's no

533
00:33:46.039 --> 00:33:51.680
better aphrodisiac than a clean kitchen that my husband provided

534
00:33:51.720 --> 00:33:54.680
for me. All right, that's how that's how women think.

535
00:33:55.119 --> 00:33:59.799
Help me not be overwhelmed, Help me with the kids. Okay,

536
00:34:00.200 --> 00:34:03.599
take them on, you know, uh out of the park

537
00:34:03.680 --> 00:34:06.279
and let me relax for a little while. All right.

538
00:34:06.759 --> 00:34:11.159
Understand that foreplay begins outside the bedroom. All right, Communicate

539
00:34:11.320 --> 00:34:15.320
needs without creating pressure. Okay, you can kind of give

540
00:34:15.360 --> 00:34:19.039
her a little subtle gesture that hey, you know, but

541
00:34:19.440 --> 00:34:22.000
don't pressure her and don't be upset if she's not

542
00:34:22.119 --> 00:34:24.840
in the mood. Just say, hey, baby, I understand, what

543
00:34:24.840 --> 00:34:27.840
what can I do for you? All right? That's how

544
00:34:27.920 --> 00:34:33.360
you have to think. Support her hormonal balance through lifestyle. Again,

545
00:34:33.920 --> 00:34:38.039
in that two weeks before her period. If she is not,

546
00:34:38.639 --> 00:34:42.440
if she does not make enough projester o, you can.

547
00:34:42.840 --> 00:34:45.320
You need to understand that. Well, let me tell you

548
00:34:45.480 --> 00:34:47.559
one thing. You don't say, and I learned this the

549
00:34:47.599 --> 00:34:50.440
hard way. If you understand that it was two weeks

550
00:34:50.480 --> 00:34:53.599
before a period, she's having PMS, you know, don't say

551
00:34:53.960 --> 00:34:57.079
I think your hormones are out of balance. Don't say

552
00:34:57.079 --> 00:35:00.000
that to a woman. Okay, she doesn't want. She doesn't

553
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:02.159
I want to hear that. I'm just going to save you.

554
00:35:02.239 --> 00:35:04.519
I had to learn that the hard way. Now she

555
00:35:04.639 --> 00:35:07.320
can say, I think it's my hormones. But don't you

556
00:35:07.440 --> 00:35:11.639
say it. Don't understand. I've been married for thirty nine years,

557
00:35:11.880 --> 00:35:14.519
so I've made a lot of mistakes, and I try

558
00:35:14.559 --> 00:35:16.920
to learn from my mistakes. And I'm telling you so

559
00:35:16.960 --> 00:35:20.320
that it can help you out. Now, for women, advocate

560
00:35:20.440 --> 00:35:22.800
for your needs and well being. You know you have

561
00:35:22.880 --> 00:35:25.280
to tell. You have to tell the man what you

562
00:35:25.320 --> 00:35:27.920
want and what you don't want. Now you can track

563
00:35:28.079 --> 00:35:32.039
your cycle and stress response patterns. You can say, hey, look, hey,

564
00:35:32.079 --> 00:35:34.079
I know we could two before my period of two

565
00:35:34.119 --> 00:35:36.679
or three days before my period. I feel like this

566
00:35:36.840 --> 00:35:39.239
or I feel like that, and this is not the time,

567
00:35:39.320 --> 00:35:42.320
and just let him know. Say okay, I understand. Hey

568
00:35:42.679 --> 00:35:44.360
what do I need to do for you? I notice

569
00:35:44.400 --> 00:35:47.519
that time, and let me do this for you. I

570
00:35:47.599 --> 00:35:52.159
consider hormone testing to identify imbalances. Now again, the woman

571
00:35:52.719 --> 00:35:55.039
can say, I think I need to test my hormones.

572
00:35:55.320 --> 00:35:58.519
Don't you say it, man, I'm telling you. I learned

573
00:35:58.519 --> 00:36:04.440
the hard way communicate biological needs clearly. So the woman

574
00:36:04.519 --> 00:36:08.039
needs to tell the man. The man it's communication. You

575
00:36:08.079 --> 00:36:11.079
know what do you always say couples need to communicate,

576
00:36:11.920 --> 00:36:16.840
prioritize stress management and nervous system regulation. You need to

577
00:36:17.360 --> 00:36:21.119
you know, for a woman, learn how to meditate. Now again,

578
00:36:21.239 --> 00:36:24.719
meditate won't Meditation may not take away harmony and balances,

579
00:36:25.119 --> 00:36:28.239
but it could help you to respond to your daily

580
00:36:28.840 --> 00:36:31.840
stress better. And women have a lot of stress. You know,

581
00:36:31.920 --> 00:36:36.679
they are primarily responsible for the kids, and then they work,

582
00:36:36.760 --> 00:36:38.960
and then they're supposed to take care of the home,

583
00:36:39.039 --> 00:36:42.000
and then they have to make sure their husband is okay.

584
00:36:42.440 --> 00:36:47.000
So they need that break from that stress or from

585
00:36:47.000 --> 00:36:49.920
that fight or flight. So women, if you could learn

586
00:36:50.000 --> 00:36:52.320
how to meditate or just go away to your quiet

587
00:36:52.360 --> 00:36:55.840
place and take some breaths, that would help also. And

588
00:36:55.880 --> 00:37:00.480
then you want to educate your partner about your hormonal reality. Okay,

589
00:37:00.559 --> 00:37:02.480
you have to tell them, hey, this is how I feel.

590
00:37:02.760 --> 00:37:07.440
You know, women have endometriosis and fibroids, and they have

591
00:37:07.679 --> 00:37:10.599
irregular bleeding and all of that. And you have to

592
00:37:10.679 --> 00:37:14.840
understand if a woman doesn't feel good about herself, if

593
00:37:14.840 --> 00:37:17.719
she doesn't feel good about how she looks, if she

594
00:37:17.880 --> 00:37:22.239
doesn't feel good because she's in pain from endometriosis or

595
00:37:22.320 --> 00:37:26.199
cramps or whatever. They don't want to have sex. Now,

596
00:37:26.320 --> 00:37:34.559
men are different. Men can be sick, dying, three hundred pounds, overweight, sweaty, nasty,

597
00:37:35.239 --> 00:37:40.039
they still want to have sex. Okay, and you see,

598
00:37:40.199 --> 00:37:45.559
you see it. You know men men don't care. Men

599
00:37:45.599 --> 00:37:48.199
can be on their dying bed and if they can

600
00:37:48.320 --> 00:37:52.400
foster up just enough energy to have an erection, they'll

601
00:37:52.400 --> 00:37:56.840
consider having sex. Now, I hate to say it, but Rebel,

602
00:37:57.239 --> 00:38:00.880
I don't know how much you've been around men or whatever,

603
00:38:01.280 --> 00:38:07.039
but have you noticed that difference that men they don't care. Now,

604
00:38:07.079 --> 00:38:10.320
women are very particular. Things aren't just right. Sex is

605
00:38:10.360 --> 00:38:13.960
not even in the cards for them. So anyway, I

606
00:38:13.960 --> 00:38:14.519
won't put you on.

607
00:38:14.719 --> 00:38:20.599
Men will just do it anywhere, any time, with anything

608
00:38:20.719 --> 00:38:21.360
that's breathing.

609
00:38:21.639 --> 00:38:27.079
Okay, that's I know, it's it's but here's what I'm saying.

610
00:38:27.119 --> 00:38:31.639
That's that's the problem with having a Y chromosome. It's

611
00:38:31.679 --> 00:38:36.239
just it just is it's not necessarily good for relationships.

612
00:38:36.519 --> 00:38:40.159
So you have to be you have to actively you

613
00:38:40.239 --> 00:38:46.800
have to actively understand kind of those innate, unconscious, subconscious

614
00:38:47.239 --> 00:38:51.639
uh desires that men have and how women are different

615
00:38:51.639 --> 00:38:54.280
from them. So if you're ready to take the next step.

616
00:38:54.440 --> 00:38:57.400
You know, I actually I should have uploaded it. You know,

617
00:38:57.719 --> 00:39:00.639
I wanted to talk about because I'm the spiritual MD,

618
00:39:01.000 --> 00:39:03.400
and I had those slands. Well anyway, I know what,

619
00:39:03.440 --> 00:39:05.920
I know what I was going to say about them. Now,

620
00:39:06.400 --> 00:39:09.639
Back in ancient times, again, before there was birth control

621
00:39:09.719 --> 00:39:14.960
pills everything, sex was considered to be a sexual I'm sorry.

622
00:39:15.239 --> 00:39:21.159
Sex was considered to be a spiritual activity, combining to

623
00:39:21.519 --> 00:39:26.280
energies that feminine and masculine energy, and it was considered

624
00:39:26.280 --> 00:39:30.039
to be uh. Sex was considered to be a gateway,

625
00:39:30.599 --> 00:39:37.440
a gateway to spiritual uh, spiritual enlightening. It was the

626
00:39:37.599 --> 00:39:43.480
next uh that changed when we stopped connecting spirituality with

627
00:39:43.599 --> 00:39:48.239
our physical body. See, when we separated physical or from

628
00:39:48.320 --> 00:39:52.039
the spiritual, then sex just became a physical thing. It

629
00:39:52.199 --> 00:39:55.239
used to be physical and spiritual. It wasn't about having

630
00:39:55.239 --> 00:39:59.599
a climax. It was about connecting to energies to create

631
00:39:59.679 --> 00:40:03.639
something more beautiful. Just like what what sex is? Two

632
00:40:03.639 --> 00:40:07.440
people get together and they bear fruit. Okay, that's what

633
00:40:07.480 --> 00:40:10.599
the problem. And so it was that was to be uh,

634
00:40:10.639 --> 00:40:18.119
to create this spiritual experience between two people two becoming one. See,

635
00:40:18.119 --> 00:40:21.719
that's a miracle when when your marriage is say two

636
00:40:21.840 --> 00:40:26.079
become one. And that sexual experience was was allowing you

637
00:40:26.119 --> 00:40:30.079
to experience being oneness. And that's what you know when

638
00:40:30.079 --> 00:40:33.320
I get into spirituality, is always talking about oneness being

639
00:40:33.360 --> 00:40:37.719
connected to that one source. So it was a spiritual experience.

640
00:40:37.719 --> 00:40:44.599
And if you look at all ancient philosophies, Taoism, tabbalah, uh,

641
00:40:44.679 --> 00:40:50.360
cometic spirituality, it was a spiritual In ancient in Africa,

642
00:40:50.519 --> 00:40:53.639
they used to pray before having sex, and what they

643
00:40:53.679 --> 00:40:58.199
would pray for is that if an offspring was produced,

644
00:40:58.679 --> 00:41:03.039
that God would bless them and would protect that offspring

645
00:41:03.119 --> 00:41:06.480
and would bring them a healthy offspring. So it was

646
00:41:06.639 --> 00:41:10.280
always that they were thinking that, hey, look we might

647
00:41:10.360 --> 00:41:14.639
bear fruit from this experience, and we need to make

648
00:41:14.679 --> 00:41:19.880
sure that we have good fruit, that we create good fruit.

649
00:41:21.239 --> 00:41:23.840
What they're thinking nowadays.

650
00:41:23.079 --> 00:41:25.920
I know, I know. And that's that's why we have

651
00:41:26.039 --> 00:41:29.639
such a problem with sex, is that we think it's

652
00:41:29.679 --> 00:41:33.920
only a physical thing and so it doesn't carry it

653
00:41:33.960 --> 00:41:38.039
doesn't bring that connection that it should. Now, when when

654
00:41:38.159 --> 00:41:44.719
two people are are are connected spiritually and and they

655
00:41:44.760 --> 00:41:48.960
have sex or they're connected spiritually, sex is beautiful. They

656
00:41:48.960 --> 00:41:52.119
don't have this missile because they're so connected that they

657
00:41:52.280 --> 00:41:57.000
understand each other. They realize, hey, this is not the tank,

658
00:41:57.400 --> 00:42:00.199
this is not this she I need something else else.

659
00:42:00.519 --> 00:42:04.760
I need to do something else to make my partner

660
00:42:04.800 --> 00:42:09.000
feel whole again. It's not about us having sex. It's

661
00:42:09.079 --> 00:42:11.599
other things. You know, what can I do for her

662
00:42:11.719 --> 00:42:15.800
to support her? But yeah, when Descartes and I talked

663
00:42:15.840 --> 00:42:18.599
about this in one of my first podcasts back in

664
00:42:18.639 --> 00:42:22.320
the sixteen hundreds, says, hey, we're going to let the

665
00:42:22.440 --> 00:42:25.400
church deal with the spiritual part and then we're going

666
00:42:25.440 --> 00:42:28.480
to let science deal with the physical part. And here's

667
00:42:28.599 --> 00:42:31.599
what the church did with sex. It made it where

668
00:42:31.639 --> 00:42:35.400
it was shameful, okay, is that you had to you know,

669
00:42:35.519 --> 00:42:39.559
it was a taboo. You didn't talk about it, you

670
00:42:39.599 --> 00:42:42.599
didn't say anything about it. They made it where it

671
00:42:42.760 --> 00:42:47.199
was some type of you know, evil thing in order

672
00:42:47.280 --> 00:42:50.719
to you know, having sex. And so it made it

673
00:42:50.760 --> 00:42:54.639
where it was a whole different connotation around sex. It

674
00:42:54.679 --> 00:42:58.719
wasn't something sacred. It's not anything spiritual anymore. But I'm

675
00:42:58.760 --> 00:43:02.039
going to tell you, if you can get to that point,

676
00:43:02.400 --> 00:43:06.159
it is a beautiful thing. And I will tell you

677
00:43:06.679 --> 00:43:10.800
is that it took me and my wife a long

678
00:43:11.119 --> 00:43:14.480
time to get to that point, to get to that realization.

679
00:43:14.920 --> 00:43:17.320
And you say, and this is what I'll tell you.

680
00:43:17.599 --> 00:43:21.400
Since I made this transformation, me and my wife have

681
00:43:21.639 --> 00:43:26.960
the best relationship we've ever had this last year, after

682
00:43:27.079 --> 00:43:32.559
thirty nine years, I'm understanding this. I'm telling you things

683
00:43:32.760 --> 00:43:35.960
now I knew about the men have sex to relax

684
00:43:36.000 --> 00:43:38.360
and women have to be relaxed to have sex, but

685
00:43:38.480 --> 00:43:41.800
to talk about the spiritual component of it, and how

686
00:43:41.840 --> 00:43:46.960
these ancient traditions have gotten pushed to the past. This

687
00:43:47.000 --> 00:43:50.039
is why I call this the ageless blueprint. We are

688
00:43:50.119 --> 00:43:53.519
not the smartest people who've ever lived on this planet.

689
00:43:54.000 --> 00:43:57.239
We are not the most connected people who have lived

690
00:43:57.280 --> 00:44:02.920
on this planet. Ancient civilization they had knowledge that we have.

691
00:44:03.559 --> 00:44:10.079
We have discarded wars and family. When a lot of

692
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the invaders came to uh Africa and other places, they

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totally destroyed these traditions and these cultures and thinking that

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they were outdated and they were pagan or whatever. No,

695
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it was understanding how nature works. That they looked at

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spirituality as a science. They looked at women like the moon,

697
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men are like the sun, and they related everything. They

698
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they had scientific formulas that taught them how nature works,

699
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how universal laws work. All of this was destroyed because

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we think we're so smart and modern and look at

701
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the chaos we're in and we think that we're more advanced.

702
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I don't know, all right, that's just you know, that's

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just my point of view. So anyway, join our Asia's

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Blueprint community. Okay, you can start off with our free

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Hormone Clarity course to understand the unique hormonal patterns between

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women and men. So you know, I was you say, well,

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you're the hormone dark. There's a spiritual limity. What are you?

708
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This is how I look at it. You cannot get

709
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your mind right if your hormones are out of fact. Okay,

710
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so first we get your hormones right. Then we talk

711
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about meditation and mindset. All right, Then you graduate to

712
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the spiritual part, because it's hard to think about spirituality

713
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when your hormones are when you're fatigued, when you don't

714
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feel good, when you're you know, when you're irritable, when

715
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you're having mood swings. You're you can't, you can't, you

716
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can't advance, you can't look any deeper. You're in that survival.

717
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You're like, but I feel bad, I'm trying to survive.

718
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I can't think about changing, you know, my my subconscious

719
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mind or my unconscious I can't think about it. So

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that's why I say I'm the hormone doctor. Then we're

721
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going to move into changing your mindset, how do you

722
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think about yourself and how do you think about out

723
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the world. Then we can talk about spiritual man. Then

724
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we can go and try and get to our higher self.

725
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So yeah, I've got two or three different names, but

726
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it's a I hope you see the progression that I'm trying.

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We can't start out at the highest level because you

728
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can't comprehend all of that when your hormones are are disrupted.

729
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So that's kind of my thought process. That's what I'm

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trying to lead you to. And we'll get more and

731
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more into that spiritual part and that mindset part, and

732
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I try to combine it, but always start out with

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the basics, so we go from physical to mental the spiritual.

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So we're going to keep climbing that ladder each week,

735
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and we're going to try our best to get as

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close to the top or to the top if we can.

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So I know we're almost out of time. Rebel any

738
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other questions or anything I need to say or you

739
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tell me, because we got like what thirty seconds left?

740
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Yeah, we got about thirty seconds left. Just make sure

741
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everybody just think about the things doctor Taylor has told

742
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you today.

743
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Okay, yeah, okay, yeah, and a comment. Please interact with me.

744
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Go to my YouTube channel. Subscribe. Support me by subscribing,

745
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746
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747
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Please support me in any way. You can tell your

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friends and I'll see you next next Wednesday.

749
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Okay, thanks for joining Doctor Taylor today. If you missed

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751
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752
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at w FOURC dot com. Together, we discovered the ancient

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