Across cultures — even ancient ones —
there’s been an understanding of polarity.
Men carry fire.
Drive. Action. Heat. Stress.
Women carry water.
Rhythm. Cycles. Cooling. Regulation.
Fire doesn’t get put out by more fire.
It settles when it meets calm water.
Not chaos.
Not pressure.
Not a storm.
Stillness.
This is why stress shuts desire down for women.
The water has to be quiet
to cool the fire.
This isn’t hierarchy.
It’s harmony.
When energy is respected instead of forced,
connection becomes natural —
and something beautiful happens.
