Feb. 25, 2026

The Relationship Growth Framework™

The Relationship Growth Framework™
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Season 2

Dr. Eldred Taylor breaks down why relationships often start with chemistry and end in conflict—and why the real culprit is usually stress, sleep loss, and shifting hormones, not “incompatibility.” He explains the subconscious “blueprint” formed in the first 7 years of life, how it drives 95% of behavior, and how couples can rewrite it through regulation, recovery after conflict, and smarter decisions under stress

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As Together we discover the secrets to better health through

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science and spirituality. A better life with Ageless Blueprint starts now.

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Here's your host, Doctor Eldrid Taylor.

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Hello. Hello, this is Wednesday morning, and that means it's

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time for the Asians Blueprint and I am doctor Taylor

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and I am the hormone Doctor and the Spiritual MD.

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And I did a podcast last week and we talked

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about relationships and really it was talking about how do

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you change the future, And it's really about changing the

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relationships between parents, our mothers and fathers, are you know,

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spouses because you know, really, when you really think about it,

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even that picture about the guy who we met in Egypt.

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You know, we talk about what is the blueprint, and

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the ace's blueprint is really that two people get together,

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they have children, they raise those children. And what we've

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talked about in the past we're going to talk about

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today is that you have a blueprint that's imprinted upon

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you in the first seven years of your life, and

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it's really a reflection of the relationship of your caretakers.

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Are your parents, you know, sometimes caretakers can be an

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aunt or you know, a grandparent if there is a

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bad situation at home. So you have to think that

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that blueprint has been started from you know, beginning generations.

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You know, so one generation they raise children and they

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imprint that blueprint. And if you don't, if you're not

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aware of that, you begin to follow the blueprint of

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your parents and you say, well, what blueprint did they follow?

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They follow the blueprint of their parents, Well what blueprint?

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So if you don't consciously change that blueprint, you're going

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to keep living a life and your children are going

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to live a life that has been passed down through

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the ages. So what we're going to talk about today

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is once you're aware of that, then you can change it.

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It's hard for you to change things that you are

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unaware of, and that blueprint is putting in your subconscious mind.

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In your subconscious mind runs ninety five percent of what

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you do. So if that blueprint is running ninety five

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percent of your life, you need to be comfortable with

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the blueprint and you need to know what that blueprint is.

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And so a lot of times when two people are

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running a blueprint that has been passed down through generations,

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those blueprints somehow have to mesh and they have to

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come together and they have to resolve the differences of

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those blueprints and come up with their own blueprint. So

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that's what we're going to talk going to talk about,

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how do you become aware of that, how do you

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make your own blueprint? And so that's what we're going

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to talk about. And here's the crazy thing is that

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a lot of times you're attracted to people who really

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just bring up those issues that have caused you problems

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in the childhood. You end up being attracted to that

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because it's familiar to you. You don't know why it's familiar,

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but it is okay, so let's go to the slats, rebel.

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Can you let me make that bigger so I can say, okay,

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there we go. All right, So here's the big question.

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So we all know that, Hey, everybody who's over twelve

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years old, they felt that romantic love, okay, and that

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romantic love usually lasts about eighteen months, and that's when

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you think that that other person is the best thing

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that ever happened to you. And a lot of times

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you're attracted to them because they have some of the

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same wounds that you have. So if you talk about

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the energetic level, are just a chemistry level. You see

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something that's familiar, she reminds you of something, and you

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actually will say, hey, look, it feels like I've been

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knowing you all my life. All this stuff, you are

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really being attracted to that blueprint. That's what you're really

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being attracted to. And there's all kinds of theories about this,

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you know, why we attract each other and all this,

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But here's what always happens. After that eighteen months, that

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old blueprint starts to show up. Okay, those things that

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were heard and wounded in your childhood, they begin to

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show up. And what happens is when they show up

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and remember the other person's familiar to you, you start

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to think that that other person is are your partner

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is making you feel like that those uncomfortable feelings that

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you had, and so there's always this point. So over time,

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the spark turns into friction because I tell you, you

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get those two blueprints that are that are trying to

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heal and that's what that's what a relationship is supposed

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to do, heal those childhood wounds. That's a lot of

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theories say that so many couples get stuck in that

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power struggle instead of trying to come up and trying

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to heal those wounds and get their own blueprint, they

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get stuck just fighting and all of these you know,

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they just get stuck. They don't realize what's happening to them,

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and then that causes stress. And what my theory is

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is that that stress just amplifies everything. So it's very

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hard to get through that conflict when you're dealing with

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that stress and you're dealing with hormones that are just

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regulated and so that it almost becomes impossible. You're not

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aware of what's happening. Your hormones are crazy. So that's

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what we're going to talk about. So why do we

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start in chemistry and end in conflict? Because initially, when

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you see something familiar, you get that bonding hormone called oxytocin,

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it's serotonin dopamine. You get this dopamine hit every time

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you see or you feel so alive and so satisfied

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and whatever. But that's all chemistry, okay. And so that

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chemistry changes with time, and the relationship changes with time

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because when that all of that wears off, you start

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to see who that person really is and some of

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those old wounds start to come up and show up,

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and then that's what causes the conflict, all right. And

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see it's also men and women are just different. Believe me,

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I've read all the relationship books because being an over Joanna,

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being a man, I read a lot of these books

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about the relationships and how men and women communicate to

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each other. And I will tell you that this helped

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me a lot in my relationship. This is really from

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Men Are from Mars and Women Are from Venus. The

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authors is John Gray, and he talks about how men

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and women have different emotional needs and have different communication,

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ways to communicate. So men they want to be respected,

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they want to be admired. They want their women to

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be proud of them, so they do things. They play football,

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they do all these things, so they want their women

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to be proud of them. But what a woman really

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wants is to be understood. And always say, no man

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really understands a woman. It's just because we have just

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two different brains. But women want you to feel their emotions.

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They want to be understood, they want to feel love.

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We want to feel respected, and we don't really feel.

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We just want them to look and think and react

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to us like we're respected because we really don't understand emotions.

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And we have to open up and be more emotional

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in order to understand our wives. And believe me, I've

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been married for forty years. I'm going to I will

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tell you that I only opened up emotionally in these

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last two or three years, and that has really changed

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our relationship. And I just feel bad that it took me,

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took me thirty eight years of marriage. Actually understand this right, So,

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but the missing piece is that when stress is involved,

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problems become huge fights. So this is the power struggle

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we're talking about we pick partners who match old childhood

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pattern and we don't know it, but that's what happens,

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all right, So it explains. So then two conflict shows

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up so we can grow. And I will tell you

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that that is the key, is that they that the

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other person in your life is really there to help

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you to grow. And I've finally realized in that realized

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that in my relationship because what happened is is that

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after I finished medical school and did residency, I felt like, oh,

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I finally made it, you know, I had my practice

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and all these things, and then my wife came to

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me and said, I wasn't passionate about anything. Now, initially

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she was attracted to me because I wasn't passionate. That

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I was calm and stable, and she felt like she

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had a life that was not at stable, so she

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wanted something. I said, So then I'm stable. That's what

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she was attracted to. But then when I was too stable,

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I was boring. So anyway, she challenged me. But you

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know what I grew. I grew. That's when we wrote

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our books, all your hormones making you sick and the

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stress connection. Because she challenged me to say I needed

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to be passionate about something, and I became passionate about

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biodemical harmones and that is what led me here, and

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that's what we're talking about. Conflicts should help you to grow.

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But a lot of times because when they say something

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like that, I will tell you I felt disrespected. I

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was like, how can you say that? I've done all

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these things? You know? But she wanted to feel my

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passion and so that now that's something. Now that took

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me a while to understand, but that's something I had

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to understand. So let's think about that, you guys. So

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a lot of times, is the reason why we have

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these problems is that because we may have had attachment

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problems when we were growing up. If you don't, if

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you didn't feel attached to your caretaker, then you're going

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to be someone who feels insecure and you're going to

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want to cling to that person and the person will say, ah,

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you're do clinging all right if you felt some If

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people feel secure when they fear losing love or pull away.

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But what's missing is why do we react differently in

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hard times? Okay, that's easy to do when you're in love,

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but when you're in hard times it becomes very difficult. Okay,

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So why the missing piece why heavy stress makes things reaction,

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make these reactions worse because stress comes in, it disrupts

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your heartmones, disrupts how you reactive. Results that it disrupts

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how you respond because you're in this survival mode, all right.

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And then there's something about the biology or relief of belief.

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This is Bruce Lipton, and he says hidden beliefs got

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most of your behavior. He's the one that talks about

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how you're hypnotized the first seven years of your life.

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Whatever you see becomes imprinted in your subconscious man. Because

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you can't filter it and say, oh that's good, I

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don't want to do that. You just absorb it all

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and then it becomes a blueprint. It becomes a pattern

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for your life. So that explains why we repeat the

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same patterns. You know, some people in the religious world

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they call it a generational curse, but it's not. It

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may not be a generational curse. It may be this

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weird unconsciously repeating patterns that we've seen. And that's why

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I'm talking about. You may be repeating a pattern from

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a generation. You know, for generations back and that just

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repeated over and over again. And see your thoughts change

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how your body works, so how stress hormones change how

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you treat your partner. You need to understand that even

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though all of this, this belief and all of this

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is that when stress comes in, it just makes everything

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harder to deal with. So a lot of these theories,

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they're really psychological. They talk about how to communicate better,

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how to understand each other better. You talk about the

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Harveyl Hendrix, he talks about he gives guided meditation. How

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you want you want to imagine how your relationship should be.

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And I will tell you that that's part of what

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I did when I did this Reality Creator is I

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imagine how my how I wanted to improve my relationship.

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But the missing piece is that we talk about the

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mand and you know, I'm all about body, mind and spirit,

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but a lot of these theories about mind and spirit

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and they don't put the body piece in there. And

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that's what I'm talking about measuring stress. You cannot manage

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what you cannot measure. So if stress is an issue,

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you need to be aware of that. You've got to

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correct that or your relationship is going to not be complete.

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And you're going to stay in that power struggle because

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neglecting the hormones and the stress is just going to

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keep you stuck right there. Now you have two issues there,

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all right. When you're stuck, you can either split apart.

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But if you don't go through that power struggle, it's

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what you're going to do. You're not going to grow.

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So what are you going to do. You're going to

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attract someone who's just like that. You're going to have

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eighteen months of bliss, then you're going to go through

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a power struggle. And that's why people get divorced over

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and over again because they're not aware of what is

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actually going on. And you always got to say, the

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common denominator in any relationship is you, Oh, some of

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my slash didn't come over, A lot of my slash

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didn't all right, all right, here we go. So but

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almost no one talks about a few experts talk about

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the stress hormones. And that's the difference with me. I'm

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trying to Usually, you know, I'm a I'm a doctor,

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so you're like, hey, you need to talk about the body,

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and so that's what we are going to talk about.

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I was trying to expand and talk about man and spirit.

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Where there's a lot of people doing that. But what

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I want to do is put it all together, all right.

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So a few experts talk about stress hormones, almost no

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one measures the body's physical state, all right. So that's

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what I'm talking about, this life of cortosol testing. To

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measure stress and to look at hormones by measuring it

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and not just guessing. That's what can bring us all

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together and can get you through the power struggle because

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you're not amplifying any everything because you're you're stressed. So

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stress makes every relationship problem feel louder. A stressed body

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easily ruins connection. So what could be a simple sit down,

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let's talk. Let's see where we can come together on

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this and figure out a new blueprint. See when stress

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is involved, anything a woman says to a man, he

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can take it as disrespect, and anything that a man

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says to a woman, she can take it as you

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don't understand me, And it just makes it where that's

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the baseline, but the stress just amplifies it. So the

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real world example, let's let's just look at the real world.

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So I actually have a patient who's a marriage counselor.

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And this is what really got me into this. And

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she came to me because somebody had put her on

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too much estrogen. Okay, she was gaining weight. She was irritable.

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She you know, she's a marriage counselor and it's causing

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problems with her and her marriage, and she feels like

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it's causing a problem with her with her with her practice.

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So anyway, she took too much. Aswer I looked. I

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did a saliva test on her, her estrogen which shouldn't

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be more than four rusd six. Her estrogen ratio was

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out of balance, cortisol was out of balance, and we

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corrected her and all of her issues became fanned. Okay,

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so she started to lose weight. And then but here's

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what she realized. She said, you know what, I have

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been in the marriage counciling business for twenty thirty years,

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and she said, I knew that these couples coming in

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at forty fifty who had been married for twenty years.

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I knew it was a hormone problem because I could

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tell their personalities had changed, they were more aggressive, all

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these and I would send them to a doctor. They

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would get the blood work and they it would all

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come back normal. And then so I'm trying to fix

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this psychological problem, this relationship problem. And now she realizes

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she was right. Her intuition told her they had hormone problems.

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They were just getting the hormone problems were getting measured

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the wrong way, and so nobody was aware of that.

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So this is a real life example. Fixing her hormones

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cleared her mand and it allowed her to look back

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at the other patients or clients that she had seen

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and said that was probably an issue with them because

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she was in their age group. I think she's the

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late fifties, early sixties, so she could relate to all

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of them. And then so that's how important this is.

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And remember, this is how you change that blueprint. This

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is how you change the next generation is by understanding this,

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getting your heart wone straight, getting all this together so

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that you can have a relationship that can be passed

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on that you can be proud of. All right, so

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the hidden amplifier stress makes your every action is much bigger.

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If you've ever seen me talk about a quarters all curve.

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If you have the normal amount of quarters all, you

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can handle stress. You can handle mouse stress, you can

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even handle moderate stress, but when you have been in

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a high stress situation for a long time. And that's

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what that power struggle is, because you just have to think.

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Once you get married, now you got to have this

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power struggle on who's going to take out the garbage?

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Are we going to have kids, what church are we

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going to go through, what's school are we're going to

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send ours? How are we going to get our kids

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into college? Who's going to help with the homework? Yeah,

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all of these power struggles. But as this goes on

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and as you get more and more stressors, it wears

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you down, and as you get older, your hormones change.

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So how stress makes you feel less safe. So now

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a neutral face suddenly looks critical. So now when she says,

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why didn't you take out the garbage, now that's a

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fight because you don't respect me. You expect me to

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do all this. I'm doing all of that. So that's

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what happens in that power struggle. And the key is

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can you manage your hormones? Can you measure and balance

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your harmones so that you don't amplify this normal power

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struggle in the relationship, It will happen romantic love does

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not last forever. We know that. We see all of

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these Hollywood couples. They usually last for about two years

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because they are really attracted to an image and they

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don't I won't say, I won't generalize, but it's difficult,

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difficult for them to go through a power struggle because

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they have all of the stress of the world is

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watching and they have to go off and be with

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you know, be away from that partner from a for

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a long time. So let me, let me keep going.

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So is the real problem? Most of the time you

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have two holley stressed people because they've been stressed from

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their childhood of blueprint and now they've gotten together, they've

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had this romantic experience, and what happens after the eighteen

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months that all dies down. So now the real person.

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Now you see all of the negative traits and you

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see everything and so and then you go through the

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power struggle and that just increases everything. So you got

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too holly stressed people trying to talk will almost always

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cause a bigger fight. So you can't go into this

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in this state of mind because at this state of man,

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you are just in a survival mode. The front, your

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executive a part of your brain that filters what you

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say and what you think. It is turned off. All

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you can do is react. You don't respond in a logical,

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non emotional way. You are just all about fight or flight,

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and when you get into that, nothing good is going

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to happen. Okay, So somehow you have to regulate yourself

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in the moment, and it's a lot easier to do

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it when your baseline hormone pattern is normal. Okay, So

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even when your baseline hormone panel is normal, these situations

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can still arise. But you have to be able to say,

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wait a minute, let me turn off this reptilian brain

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that's only trying to survive and only trying to win

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this particular fight and not thinking about winning in this

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overall relationship. And that's what happens when you're under stress.

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You just think about the right here and now, I

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just got to survive this moment, the heck with the relationationship.

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I'm going to win this fight. That's the problem, all right.

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So how do you?

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How do you quiet your man? How do you how

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do you how do you get out of that fight

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or flight? And what is going to make you more

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susceptible to it? Well, this is what I will tell you,

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and this is the problem as you get older. Sleep

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is the absolute foundation of a healthy relationship, okay. Is

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that if you don't sleep, you are going to not recover.

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That's what causes that, uh that wired and tired, Uh,

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tired and wired. Part of the cortisol curve is that

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when you don't get added with sleep, your morning cortisol

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goes down. That morning cortisol is your stress hormony. It

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mobilizes glucos so you have the energy to get through

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the stressors. So but if you don't sleep, that morning

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cortisol goes down. So now you're tired all day. When

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you're tired, you're not going to be able to be

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reasonable and logically non emotional because you're tired, you can't

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handle the stress. So now, like you said, a small

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little uh, you know, upshoot of the eyebrow. You think

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that you're being disrespected or you don't listen to her

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because you're so tired you can't even comprehend what she's saying,

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and so you say something that shows her you weren't listening,

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and then she says you never listen, So this is

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you know, this is kind of the vicious cycle we

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go through. So patients poor sleeps lowers your patients. Also,

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negativity is increased when you're tired. Being tired makes you

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focus on the negative. You know, we always say, well,

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I'll tell you, men always say when women get into

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an argument, they bring up things from twenty thirty years ago. Well,

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that's probably because she's tired. And so then the negative,

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the reason why I want to fight and our flight

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comes to the forefront. Right, so you think about all

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of the things that he has done or she is done,

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and you start to focus on that instead of just

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thinking about the present moment. What is going on right now?

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What are we fighting about right now? What is the

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issue right now? Is not about what happened twenty years

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ago when you said something or you forgot her birthday

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or whatever. And I'm not trying to minimize that, but

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I'm just saying it becomes a bigger issue when you

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are tired, or when you are when your cortisol is

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out of balance and your estrogen progesterone is out of balance,

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all right, and then so now you've had all of

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those stressors. And I'll tell you, these mid life changes

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are either early life change I will tell you is

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that you can go through this romantic love for the

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first eighteen months, and then if you have a child,

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or you have children, that is a big stress change

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and a big hormonal change. The maternal instinct is real.

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I would say when I was lecturing, is that once

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a woman has a child, then her focus is totally

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on the well being of those children. And a lot

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of times men fee old, neglected and disrespected, and so

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now we have this communication issues. The man doesn't understand that, Hey,

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for those eighteen months, it was all about me. Now

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we have this child, and you seem to have forgotten

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about me. And that's something that men and women need

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to understand, is that that is a big inflection point,

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is when you have children and then once you you know,

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go through that power struggle, and then once the children leave,

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that's another big mid life change. So hormone changes makes

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relationships feel unstable. All right, now we all know that, Hey,

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I'm the hormone doctor, and I'm telling you at these points,

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eternal instinct harmones change when period menopause and menopause harmones change.

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And what happens is and this is what I keep

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trying to get across. Just like the lady who was

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on too much. What decreases in perimenopaus and menopause is

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not estrogen, it's progesterone. You stop ovulating. Progesterone is an

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anti anxiety, antidepression harmone. So if you are anxious and

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depressed during perimenopause, here's what happens. You think that your

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partner is making you anxious and depressed, but it's really

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your hormones. And you have stacked on twenty years of

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this power struggle, so that twenty years of power struggle

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has caused your cortisol to get disregulated. So that's why

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a lot of times in this midlife after twenty years,

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you know, forty fifty sixty year olds, they think that

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this is incompatibility, but it's really a mid life change.

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It's going through the power struggle. And then at the

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end of the power struggle, everybody's hormones change. The man's

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hormones change, the woman's hormones change. And this sometimes is

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just the point of no return. Is just said, this

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is not getting better, it's getting and so people take

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the divorce route. That's where divorce has gone up I

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thirty five percent now what do you think that does

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to your kids? Okay, So even though they're they're you know,

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they have gone through that hypnotic stage, they still are

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part of that relationship, so they see that relationship change

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and so that gets imprinted. Okay, is that how my

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relationship is going to be a lot of people don't

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get married and don't have children because they've seen that

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blueprint and they're like, the only way I can not

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repeat that is just not to have children. Okay, And

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00:26:39.759 --> 00:26:41.480
that's what a lot of people are thinking. I think

461
00:26:41.519 --> 00:26:44.440
that's why the birth rate has gone down. It says like, no,

462
00:26:44.960 --> 00:26:47.440
I don't want to repeat that. So either you can

463
00:26:47.519 --> 00:26:50.839
become conscious and change it, or you just say I'm

464
00:26:50.960 --> 00:26:53.440
just not going to get involved at all. All right,

465
00:26:53.799 --> 00:26:58.359
So dropping hormones strip away your emotional buffer. Normal differences

466
00:26:58.680 --> 00:27:03.440
suddenly feel impopered to handle, and that's I really believe

467
00:27:03.519 --> 00:27:06.440
that's what is going on. But what we want to

468
00:27:06.480 --> 00:27:09.839
talk about is the growth foundation. How can we use

469
00:27:09.920 --> 00:27:12.240
that power struggle, because you're going to go through it,

470
00:27:12.640 --> 00:27:15.720
how can you use that power struggle to actually grow

471
00:27:15.799 --> 00:27:20.079
your relationship instead of destroy your relationship? And even if

472
00:27:20.599 --> 00:27:24.200
even if the relationship doesn't grow if you make a

473
00:27:24.359 --> 00:27:29.440
decision about leaving the relationship, making sure it's the relationship

474
00:27:29.599 --> 00:27:32.039
and not your hormones. The reason why I say that

475
00:27:32.279 --> 00:27:34.880
is that I'm telling you I've had several patients, not

476
00:27:35.079 --> 00:27:37.559
just a few, several patients say if I had a

477
00:27:37.680 --> 00:27:41.799
known this before I got a divorce, I probably wouldn't

478
00:27:41.799 --> 00:27:44.960
have gotten a divorce. So I'm saying this from experience, okay,

479
00:27:45.359 --> 00:27:48.480
is that this is important if before you make a

480
00:27:48.599 --> 00:27:51.440
big decision. That's going to be my last slide here

481
00:27:51.559 --> 00:27:54.920
after the break, because before you make a clear, a

482
00:27:55.119 --> 00:27:59.680
big decision, make sure that you are thinking clearly, making

483
00:28:00.160 --> 00:28:03.759
make sure that your hormones and your stress harmon hasn't

484
00:28:03.799 --> 00:28:07.720
turned off your executive part of the brain and allows

485
00:28:07.799 --> 00:28:12.000
you to make reactive decisions instead of responsible decisions. So

486
00:28:12.119 --> 00:28:13.480
I know it's time for a break, and then we're

487
00:28:13.480 --> 00:28:16.599
going to talk more about how can we get through

488
00:28:16.680 --> 00:28:20.720
that power struggle and grow our relationships and create a

489
00:28:20.880 --> 00:28:24.839
good blueprint to pass along to future generations. All right,

490
00:28:24.920 --> 00:28:25.599
let's go to break.

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health and a better life in modern times. Here's your host,

507
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doctor Eldred Taylor.

508
00:29:36.839 --> 00:29:39.559
All right, I'm back. You know, I hope you saw

509
00:29:39.640 --> 00:29:41.960
that picture of that's when we were in Egypt, and

510
00:29:42.440 --> 00:29:44.799
that was a guy named Ronnie and he had lived

511
00:29:44.920 --> 00:29:48.799
in the mountains of Petra for five hundred years. His

512
00:29:49.160 --> 00:29:52.240
grandmother lived to be like one hundred and six. And

513
00:29:52.519 --> 00:29:55.319
let me tell you, talking to this guy made me

514
00:29:55.519 --> 00:29:59.160
feel so at ease. He was the epitome of no stress,

515
00:29:59.480 --> 00:30:02.160
and just for five hundred years his family has been there,

516
00:30:02.359 --> 00:30:05.680
and that's a blueprint. He doesn't know anything else. That's

517
00:30:05.759 --> 00:30:08.880
his blueprint, and he's passed that on. They've passed that

518
00:30:08.960 --> 00:30:12.200
on for five hundred generations. And that's what I'm talking about,

519
00:30:12.599 --> 00:30:15.799
these blueprints, and that's a five hundred year old blueprint.

520
00:30:16.119 --> 00:30:20.200
But they have followed that and he's peaceful. They work

521
00:30:20.319 --> 00:30:22.920
with nature. He said that the animals take care of us.

522
00:30:23.039 --> 00:30:25.880
We take care of the animals, and you know, so

523
00:30:26.000 --> 00:30:28.400
that's just I always want you to see that there's

524
00:30:29.200 --> 00:30:32.640
different people live different ways and there are ways to

525
00:30:32.759 --> 00:30:35.559
live stress free. He has kids he talks about because

526
00:30:35.559 --> 00:30:37.759
they live in the mountains that they that the kids

527
00:30:37.880 --> 00:30:40.400
live with the grandmother for the first two or three

528
00:30:40.440 --> 00:30:42.839
years until he can climb up here. She can climb

529
00:30:42.920 --> 00:30:45.400
up into the mountains. And that's all I would say.

530
00:30:45.440 --> 00:30:48.559
You know, there are different blueprints, and you can change

531
00:30:48.640 --> 00:30:50.440
your blueprint. You don't have to go live in the

532
00:30:50.519 --> 00:30:54.240
mountains of Petra, but your blueprint can change if you

533
00:30:54.519 --> 00:30:57.960
don't like what your blueprint is. He likes his blueprint,

534
00:30:58.039 --> 00:31:00.759
so he's going to carry it, you know, to carry

535
00:31:00.799 --> 00:31:03.240
it on. But if you don't like your blueprint. If

536
00:31:03.240 --> 00:31:06.400
you can become aware and you can get your harmones right,

537
00:31:06.480 --> 00:31:08.839
so you can make good decisions, and you guys can

538
00:31:08.880 --> 00:31:12.039
get together and you can can help each other grow.

539
00:31:12.160 --> 00:31:14.920
And that's what's happened in our relationship. I believe, I

540
00:31:15.079 --> 00:31:17.039
hope I've helped her grow, but I know she's helped

541
00:31:17.119 --> 00:31:19.480
me grow because, let me tell you, the only reason

542
00:31:19.519 --> 00:31:21.279
why I'm doing this age was this blueprint is because

543
00:31:21.319 --> 00:31:24.319
my wife challenged me again to grow. She said, hey,

544
00:31:24.359 --> 00:31:26.200
you usould go out and speak. And she said, I

545
00:31:26.319 --> 00:31:29.319
know that wore you out, and I really was burnt

546
00:31:29.359 --> 00:31:32.119
out from traveling and speaking. But she says, there's a

547
00:31:32.160 --> 00:31:34.359
new way to do this. I see other guys on

548
00:31:34.480 --> 00:31:38.200
here talking about this type of information, and you know

549
00:31:38.279 --> 00:31:41.480
it better than they do. And so she challenged me,

550
00:31:41.839 --> 00:31:46.079
and I grew, and our relationship grew because we were

551
00:31:46.519 --> 00:31:49.920
balanced and we could understand each other. But that doesn't

552
00:31:49.960 --> 00:31:52.400
come easy. I tell you, we've been married forty years,

553
00:31:52.839 --> 00:31:56.920
and I feel like we've just really developed a really

554
00:31:57.039 --> 00:31:59.960
mature love in the last two years because we both

555
00:32:00.240 --> 00:32:05.480
became aware of ourselves and we began to accept each

556
00:32:05.599 --> 00:32:09.759
other as actually different people and not trying to make

557
00:32:09.799 --> 00:32:12.880
the other person be just like us. That's a lot

558
00:32:12.920 --> 00:32:15.279
of times what happens. So here's that mad life perlision.

559
00:32:15.279 --> 00:32:17.640
I got a little bit ahead of myself. Older couples

560
00:32:17.720 --> 00:32:19.960
often think that they just fell out of love, but

561
00:32:20.200 --> 00:32:23.480
usually it's a crash of high stress and shifting hormones.

562
00:32:23.759 --> 00:32:27.200
Old pain surfaces when the body is too tired to cope.

563
00:32:27.559 --> 00:32:30.480
So all of those past hurts and things they end

564
00:32:30.599 --> 00:32:33.440
up coming up again, and then you start to think, hey,

565
00:32:33.519 --> 00:32:35.720
why am I feeling like that? It's really from a

566
00:32:35.920 --> 00:32:40.079
past hurt, past something that happened when you were unaware

567
00:32:40.119 --> 00:32:44.839
and your subconscious and somehow, when these hormones get disregulated,

568
00:32:45.279 --> 00:32:48.759
all of that stuff comes up and you can't you

569
00:32:48.960 --> 00:32:52.680
can't filter it out to say no, it's not my spouse,

570
00:32:52.799 --> 00:32:58.319
it's it's this. And if you can, if the partnership grows,

571
00:32:58.839 --> 00:33:01.519
you will be able to hear healed each other's hurts.

572
00:33:02.079 --> 00:33:05.920
And according to Hendrix, that's what real relationships are for,

573
00:33:06.559 --> 00:33:09.880
to help heal each other, heal each other, provide the

574
00:33:10.000 --> 00:33:13.359
other person what they did not get when they were

575
00:33:14.279 --> 00:33:17.839
a developing child. All right, but again, I think all

576
00:33:17.880 --> 00:33:21.079
of those theories are great, but man, it really is

577
00:33:21.200 --> 00:33:24.160
a challenge when this is going on. So couple's mistake

578
00:33:24.240 --> 00:33:27.519
the tired physical reaction for the truth. So you're tired,

579
00:33:27.599 --> 00:33:31.240
your hormones OTO and you just say it's the relationship

580
00:33:31.640 --> 00:33:34.640
because the relationship was good. And when you say what

581
00:33:34.799 --> 00:33:37.599
you've changed, well, yes you guys, both of you guys

582
00:33:37.720 --> 00:33:41.160
have changed, but you have to use that change to

583
00:33:41.440 --> 00:33:47.440
help advance the relationship. So one of the guys I

584
00:33:47.480 --> 00:33:50.319
think is Hindris. He talks about you don't ask what

585
00:33:50.440 --> 00:33:53.359
the relationship can do for you. You ask what you

586
00:33:53.480 --> 00:33:57.160
can do for the relationship. The relationship is more important

587
00:33:57.240 --> 00:34:00.240
than the individual. When we were raising our kids, like

588
00:34:00.680 --> 00:34:02.200
we have to go on date nights, we have to

589
00:34:02.240 --> 00:34:05.319
do some of this stuff because if our relationship breaks down,

590
00:34:05.400 --> 00:34:09.000
the whole family unit breaks down. So somehow my wife

591
00:34:09.239 --> 00:34:12.320
understood that early and now I'm just giving you the

592
00:34:12.440 --> 00:34:16.239
science behind it. All right, So the way forward, the

593
00:34:16.320 --> 00:34:19.920
way for it is that relationships do not mature with tan.

594
00:34:20.360 --> 00:34:23.719
They mature with regulation under stress. And this is an

595
00:34:23.760 --> 00:34:27.639
issue is that early on, when my wife ain't got married,

596
00:34:27.719 --> 00:34:30.119
we said we were going to take divorce off the table.

597
00:34:30.400 --> 00:34:32.360
I said that last week you got to take divorce

598
00:34:32.440 --> 00:34:35.039
off the table. But that's not the only thing that

599
00:34:35.440 --> 00:34:37.960
means you're committed. That means that I'm not going to lead.

600
00:34:38.280 --> 00:34:40.760
I'm going to stay here through thick and Dan committed,

601
00:34:40.960 --> 00:34:43.599
we have taken divorce off the table. Well, that's great,

602
00:34:43.960 --> 00:34:46.440
but just being committed doesn't mean that you have a

603
00:34:46.559 --> 00:34:50.000
mature love commit It says, even though we argued, even

604
00:34:50.039 --> 00:34:52.519
though we fight, even though I don't feel like you

605
00:34:52.679 --> 00:34:55.119
really respect me, even though I feel like you don't

606
00:34:55.159 --> 00:34:57.639
really understand me, I'm not a quitter. So I'm just

607
00:34:57.719 --> 00:34:59.800
going to stay here. So you end up having this

608
00:35:00.360 --> 00:35:04.800
kind of loveless we're both roommates kind of relationship, which

609
00:35:04.920 --> 00:35:08.159
really is a love. Okay, it's commitment, you know. It's

610
00:35:08.239 --> 00:35:12.039
just like I've committed to show up to work. You

611
00:35:12.119 --> 00:35:14.480
can commit to work, but you might not love work.

612
00:35:14.719 --> 00:35:17.079
All right, So commitment is great, that's why you say

613
00:35:17.119 --> 00:35:20.760
the vows and everything. But love matures over tan. It

614
00:35:20.880 --> 00:35:24.000
takes ten. It takes going through the rough tand you

615
00:35:24.079 --> 00:35:26.039
know we've had times that you know, we've been married

616
00:35:26.079 --> 00:35:29.280
forty years. You're going through your parents getting sick, your

617
00:35:29.400 --> 00:35:33.519
parents dying, maybe a sibling passed away, lost a job,

618
00:35:33.760 --> 00:35:36.920
got a job, all of these things. But if you

619
00:35:37.039 --> 00:35:40.559
can go through those together, take the highs, take the lows,

620
00:35:41.000 --> 00:35:44.880
don't automatically go for the off ramp when a conflict happens.

621
00:35:45.079 --> 00:35:47.480
I'm telling you, if you go through that and you

622
00:35:47.719 --> 00:35:51.320
mature together, it really can be a beautiful thing. And

623
00:35:51.440 --> 00:35:54.679
I'm telling you is that if I tell people, if

624
00:35:54.719 --> 00:35:57.320
you can hang in there, it can be beautiful. And

625
00:35:57.360 --> 00:36:01.159
I'm telling you this is from me talking about we've

626
00:36:01.440 --> 00:36:03.760
I've always been We've always been committed to each other.

627
00:36:03.880 --> 00:36:07.559
We've always loved each other, Okay, and that's the reason

628
00:36:07.559 --> 00:36:11.119
why we stayed. Okay, we loved each other. But mature

629
00:36:11.199 --> 00:36:16.159
love is really really when you are when you grow

630
00:36:16.280 --> 00:36:18.360
and you able to heal and you're able to understand

631
00:36:18.440 --> 00:36:22.920
each other. It's almost hard to explain because it's almost

632
00:36:23.039 --> 00:36:26.280
it's really kind of new to me, is the difference

633
00:36:26.360 --> 00:36:32.360
between commitment and true mature love. All Right, So here's

634
00:36:32.400 --> 00:36:37.159
the growth framework. Here's how you can grow your marriage,

635
00:36:37.239 --> 00:36:41.480
how you can both grow together and the relationship makes

636
00:36:41.639 --> 00:36:44.599
both of you guys better. It's not about someone being

637
00:36:44.679 --> 00:36:48.519
superior to the other. It's that you're both involved in

638
00:36:48.639 --> 00:36:53.119
this relationship that is enhancing you. And everyone around you.

639
00:36:53.480 --> 00:36:56.679
It enhances your kids, it enhances who you work with

640
00:36:57.159 --> 00:37:00.199
because you're not bringing stress from work home and you're

641
00:37:00.239 --> 00:37:03.960
not bringing stress from home to work. Okay, you've got

642
00:37:04.039 --> 00:37:08.599
a stable life. You go home and there's peace. And

643
00:37:08.679 --> 00:37:11.280
I'll tell you all, men they just want peace, okay,

644
00:37:11.719 --> 00:37:15.719
and women want understanding, right, So stay in calm under

645
00:37:15.760 --> 00:37:19.840
stress builds mature lung. And I really, I really do

646
00:37:20.000 --> 00:37:24.360
believe that, okay. Is that stress is what makes you grow.

647
00:37:24.400 --> 00:37:28.719
You gotta think nothing grows. Everything gets stressed in order

648
00:37:29.079 --> 00:37:32.039
to grow, okay. Is that you have to put a

649
00:37:32.119 --> 00:37:35.079
seed in the ground, take it away from the sunlight,

650
00:37:35.280 --> 00:37:38.360
stress it. Then it wants to grow and go into

651
00:37:38.480 --> 00:37:42.719
the sunlight. Okay, And then you'll have flowers. If they

652
00:37:42.800 --> 00:37:46.719
want to grow, they have to turn toward the sunlight. Okay.

653
00:37:47.039 --> 00:37:50.480
So it's all about you have to and even if

654
00:37:50.880 --> 00:37:54.559
you know we sell a dream of Cari Glandro, it's

655
00:37:54.599 --> 00:38:00.320
about these adaptogens that can grow in stressful situations. Seeing

656
00:38:00.440 --> 00:38:03.960
Rodeola cordzuf I just thought about this, These adaptogens that

657
00:38:04.199 --> 00:38:07.920
help you to better adapt to stress. Everybody's heard of

658
00:38:07.960 --> 00:38:10.400
astra ganda and gensening, all of those. The reason why

659
00:38:10.480 --> 00:38:14.400
those are adaptagens is because they grow in stressful situations.

660
00:38:14.480 --> 00:38:18.159
They can grow in mountaintops in cold weather. So it's

661
00:38:18.239 --> 00:38:22.159
all about stress makes things grow and makes things resilient.

662
00:38:22.440 --> 00:38:25.920
So your relationship will grow when it can work its

663
00:38:25.960 --> 00:38:30.960
way through stress. If you cannot say calm, conflicts repeat forever.

664
00:38:31.440 --> 00:38:35.039
That's why I'm talking about that azeless blueprint, is that

665
00:38:35.480 --> 00:38:38.519
these conflicts just keep repeating and they can go from

666
00:38:38.599 --> 00:38:42.719
generation to generation. Because your children see the conflict, it

667
00:38:42.840 --> 00:38:46.960
gets into the subconscious mind. They repeat the same conflict. Right.

668
00:38:47.360 --> 00:38:51.840
Real growth happens after surviving the power struggle. And again

669
00:38:52.480 --> 00:38:55.000
everyone is going to have the power struggle if you

670
00:38:55.079 --> 00:38:59.199
stay in a relationship. It is just how mother nature

671
00:38:59.320 --> 00:39:03.400
wants you to grow. It is a part of the plan.

672
00:39:04.000 --> 00:39:07.440
And Hindrick says that mother nature is and I believe

673
00:39:07.480 --> 00:39:10.719
this the universe, the quantum field, God, how do you

674
00:39:10.800 --> 00:39:13.800
want to call it? There is order to this and

675
00:39:14.039 --> 00:39:17.360
the order of relationships is I'm going to put people

676
00:39:17.480 --> 00:39:20.880
who unconsciously need each other. I'm going to make them

677
00:39:20.920 --> 00:39:23.840
for eighteen months just be so attracted to each other.

678
00:39:23.960 --> 00:39:26.719
They have to come together because they need to go

679
00:39:26.880 --> 00:39:31.840
through the power struggle to heal their childhood because in

680
00:39:32.039 --> 00:39:35.400
this quantum field physics, I told you that was That's

681
00:39:35.480 --> 00:39:38.079
kind of what opened my eyes to all this is

682
00:39:38.119 --> 00:39:41.239
that in the quantum field, they is saying that everything,

683
00:39:42.000 --> 00:39:46.599
every memory is in this quantum field. So if that's

684
00:39:46.679 --> 00:39:52.079
the case, your subconscious remembers your childhood and nature wants

685
00:39:52.199 --> 00:39:55.079
everything to heal and grow. Is that when you cut

686
00:39:55.119 --> 00:39:59.079
your finger, your body automatically heals it. When you break

687
00:39:59.159 --> 00:40:02.480
a leg, body will heal it. And so some of

688
00:40:02.519 --> 00:40:05.400
the thought is is that you're attracted because you're trying

689
00:40:05.440 --> 00:40:09.400
to heal the wounds that cuts the scars from your childhood.

690
00:40:10.280 --> 00:40:12.719
Nature wants you to heal. So it puts you in

691
00:40:12.840 --> 00:40:17.679
a relationship that through conflict, through the power struggle, will

692
00:40:17.800 --> 00:40:21.519
help you to heal and to grow because nature wants

693
00:40:21.679 --> 00:40:25.320
everything to grow. That's kind of when I first heard it.

694
00:40:25.800 --> 00:40:29.440
It was like, man, that's wild, but yeah, everything wants

695
00:40:29.480 --> 00:40:34.599
to grow, okay. So and so for the human species

696
00:40:34.719 --> 00:40:37.760
to grow, what has to happen. You have to be attractive,

697
00:40:37.800 --> 00:40:40.159
you have to go through and for the human species

698
00:40:40.239 --> 00:40:42.440
to grow, you have to get through those power struggles

699
00:40:42.719 --> 00:40:46.599
and change the blueprint so that the next generation can

700
00:40:47.079 --> 00:40:51.519
grow from what you learned and how you grew your relationship.

701
00:40:51.840 --> 00:40:55.480
So working through hard times together deepens love. You know,

702
00:40:55.559 --> 00:40:59.239
the song says what doesn't kill you will make you stronger.

703
00:40:59.679 --> 00:41:02.400
That's right, because I'll tell you there's a lot of

704
00:41:02.519 --> 00:41:05.360
things that can happen and try and kill a relationship,

705
00:41:05.679 --> 00:41:08.000
but if you can get through it, it will make

706
00:41:08.079 --> 00:41:12.480
you stronger, all right. So let's redefine compatibility. It's not

707
00:41:12.559 --> 00:41:16.639
about always being comfortable. It means stay calm while growing together.

708
00:41:16.800 --> 00:41:19.440
So you think compatibility means, oh, we like the same things,

709
00:41:19.519 --> 00:41:22.119
we do the same that's what happens with romantic love.

710
00:41:22.159 --> 00:41:25.159
Oh they he likes peanut butter and I like peanut

711
00:41:25.159 --> 00:41:27.960
butter is and that's so great. That's not it, Okay,

712
00:41:28.519 --> 00:41:31.639
It means stay calm or growing together. You must feel

713
00:41:31.719 --> 00:41:35.159
safe to be yourself. Couples must learn to recover quickly

714
00:41:35.320 --> 00:41:38.760
after a fight. And again I told you that love

715
00:41:38.840 --> 00:41:41.519
grows when you finally accept the person for who they

716
00:41:41.599 --> 00:41:45.039
are and not for who they pretended to be when

717
00:41:45.079 --> 00:41:48.440
they recording, or who they're trying to be to keep

718
00:41:48.519 --> 00:41:52.559
the conflict down. When you feel safe, you are free

719
00:41:52.639 --> 00:41:56.519
to just h relax and be yourself and know that

720
00:41:56.880 --> 00:41:59.760
your partner's not going to criticize you or be negative

721
00:41:59.760 --> 00:42:04.360
to what you In the relationship of information I was reading,

722
00:42:04.360 --> 00:42:07.280
they say you have to take away all negativity, all

723
00:42:07.440 --> 00:42:11.760
the little weird little faces that you make, sounds, the

724
00:42:11.920 --> 00:42:15.199
rolling of your eyes. You have to remove all of that.

725
00:42:15.719 --> 00:42:18.519
And once you accept the person as they are, it

726
00:42:18.599 --> 00:42:22.320
becomes easy because whatever they do, you're like, Okay, that

727
00:42:22.599 --> 00:42:25.159
is them, and this is me. He talks about you.

728
00:42:25.800 --> 00:42:29.239
You have to understand if you are married or in

729
00:42:29.280 --> 00:42:31.360
a relationship with a person who is different from you,

730
00:42:31.800 --> 00:42:33.960
and stop trying to make them just like you. So

731
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we need to stop the damage. Never make permanent choices.

732
00:42:37.519 --> 00:42:40.519
When Holly stressed, that's why I'm saying, those women come

733
00:42:40.559 --> 00:42:42.960
and say, oh, i'd've known this, I wouldn't have divorced

734
00:42:43.039 --> 00:42:45.280
my husband or my wife. You have to take a

735
00:42:45.400 --> 00:42:48.920
plan pause. When a fight gets too hot, you gotta

736
00:42:49.199 --> 00:42:51.920
be able to step away. My wife and I have

737
00:42:52.000 --> 00:42:55.079
figured out how to fight. If we started raising our voices,

738
00:42:55.360 --> 00:42:58.400
we would say, let's just stop, let's go away, let's

739
00:42:58.440 --> 00:43:01.480
go to our neutral corners and then let me think

740
00:43:01.599 --> 00:43:04.920
without having this constant feedback, and let me come back

741
00:43:05.000 --> 00:43:07.599
and let's try and be reasonable. Stop trying to fix

742
00:43:07.679 --> 00:43:10.320
things when you feel threatened. You're not going to solve

743
00:43:10.360 --> 00:43:12.719
a problem while you guys are both at this heightened

744
00:43:12.760 --> 00:43:16.119
stress state, and wait till your body is calm and rested,

745
00:43:16.239 --> 00:43:18.320
even if you have to sleep on They talk about

746
00:43:18.360 --> 00:43:21.760
don't go to sleep angry, Well, sometimes you need to

747
00:43:21.920 --> 00:43:26.519
let your subconscious figure things out. Not going to sleep angry,

748
00:43:26.800 --> 00:43:29.039
but just say, hey, we're going to pick this up

749
00:43:29.079 --> 00:43:34.039
tomorrow when we're not tired, when we both made not hungry,

750
00:43:34.440 --> 00:43:37.039
and then let's talk about it all right, all right,

751
00:43:37.199 --> 00:43:41.000
Clarity first decision. Second, First, repair your sleep and lower stress,

752
00:43:41.400 --> 00:43:44.239
lower the feeling of threatning your body. Then look at

753
00:43:44.280 --> 00:43:47.519
your relationship with a clear man. Decisions should always come

754
00:43:47.639 --> 00:43:50.480
from a calm truth, and I will. And you know,

755
00:43:50.639 --> 00:43:55.440
my whole idea is cannot manage what cannot measure, So

756
00:43:55.599 --> 00:43:58.679
you need to measure your heartmones. That's what we talk about.

757
00:43:59.000 --> 00:44:01.440
So please you know, as always, I would love for

758
00:44:01.440 --> 00:44:03.280
you to join my school group. All of my links

759
00:44:03.320 --> 00:44:06.280
are right there. You can follow me on TikTok. I'll

760
00:44:06.280 --> 00:44:09.119
be doing TikTok Live. I'm at the Harmone Doctor. I

761
00:44:09.239 --> 00:44:13.519
do TikTok live every Wednesday after this at eleven o'clock.

762
00:44:14.000 --> 00:44:16.639
This is where I see that I see the problems.

763
00:44:16.840 --> 00:44:19.519
There's so many people on TikTok and Facebook trying to

764
00:44:19.599 --> 00:44:23.119
figure all of this stuff out. And the reason why

765
00:44:23.159 --> 00:44:25.039
I know it because a lot of these people have

766
00:44:25.199 --> 00:44:28.280
harmone problems and they talk about how it's causing the

767
00:44:28.360 --> 00:44:32.360
problems with their relationships. So join me on TikTok, join

768
00:44:32.440 --> 00:44:36.559
my school group. Please subscribe to my YouTube channel is

769
00:44:36.639 --> 00:44:41.320
ass Blueprint one comment, ask me questions. I tried to

770
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answer the questions from last week. I hope I did that, Rebel,

771
00:44:45.440 --> 00:44:48.000
you have any questions? Do anybody have any questions today?

772
00:44:48.440 --> 00:44:51.840
They had some questions answered them as okay. I tried to.

773
00:44:52.440 --> 00:44:54.559
So I tried to look at the questions last week,

774
00:44:54.599 --> 00:44:56.840
and I said, let me try and put it all together.

775
00:44:56.960 --> 00:45:02.039
But this is you know, I'm trying to just impress

776
00:45:02.159 --> 00:45:04.880
upon you that when we wrote that book the Stress Connection,

777
00:45:05.920 --> 00:45:09.559
I really didn't understand completely how much it was connected.

778
00:45:09.840 --> 00:45:12.760
But stress does cause problems. And the reason why we

779
00:45:12.920 --> 00:45:16.440
wrote that book is because we understood that harmones alone

780
00:45:16.480 --> 00:45:18.599
are just looking at estrage of progesterone and women are

781
00:45:18.639 --> 00:45:21.920
testosterone and men didn't give us a clear picture, and

782
00:45:22.480 --> 00:45:25.400
now almost every quarter's all curved or quarters all tests

783
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I do. It's abnormal because I was just looking at

784
00:45:28.519 --> 00:45:33.559
something last night and it was just showing some situations

785
00:45:33.840 --> 00:45:37.039
at food banks and whatever because a lot of the

786
00:45:37.119 --> 00:45:41.119
subsidies have gone away. And this guy was saying, Hey,

787
00:45:41.639 --> 00:45:44.599
everybody feels like they're in survival mode. That's not a

788
00:45:44.639 --> 00:45:49.000
good thing, okay, because no one can be reasonable when

789
00:45:49.000 --> 00:45:52.239
they're in survival. No one's really thinking clearly when they're

790
00:45:52.280 --> 00:45:55.920
in survival. So we need to identify that in each person,

791
00:45:56.480 --> 00:46:00.280
and that is how we're going to calm down some

792
00:46:00.440 --> 00:46:03.480
of this tension that we all feel. And whether you're

793
00:46:03.480 --> 00:46:06.239
admit it or not, we all feel it, and so

794
00:46:06.480 --> 00:46:09.280
it's affecting us and you need to be able to

795
00:46:09.280 --> 00:46:11.719
figure out how to combat it. And that's why I'm

796
00:46:11.760 --> 00:46:14.360
putting this information out, and that's why I'm talking about

797
00:46:14.400 --> 00:46:17.159
adaptogens and all of these things to help you to

798
00:46:17.280 --> 00:46:20.679
correct that quarter's all flow and correct your hormones so

799
00:46:20.840 --> 00:46:23.840
that you can live life to the fullest and not

800
00:46:24.440 --> 00:46:27.760
run this blueprint that is going to disrupt your life

801
00:46:28.039 --> 00:46:32.000
and maybe disrupt the lives of future generations. So that's

802
00:46:32.039 --> 00:46:35.000
the age of blueprint. Tip of today is if you

803
00:46:35.119 --> 00:46:39.679
want to change the future, change yourself. Okay, look at yourself,

804
00:46:40.079 --> 00:46:42.280
look at the stress, look at how you're thinking, how

805
00:46:42.320 --> 00:46:45.679
you're reacting, and that can change your relationship and it

806
00:46:45.760 --> 00:46:49.800
can change change your blueprint. All right, So that's the

807
00:46:49.880 --> 00:46:55.320
clothes we got what the twenty seconds left? Anything else,

808
00:46:56.159 --> 00:46:58.079
rebel I need to talk about. I tried to tell

809
00:46:58.159 --> 00:47:01.599
everybody how they can continue this information and join my

810
00:47:01.639 --> 00:47:03.760
school group. I'm really going to try and make it

811
00:47:03.800 --> 00:47:06.960
where you can go there and really, uh get more

812
00:47:07.000 --> 00:47:10.760
and more information about all of these all right, anything else, rebel,

813
00:47:11.119 --> 00:47:14.079
tell people where they can get this. Oh, going to school,

814
00:47:14.159 --> 00:47:16.679
the school group, you can do it. I have the

815
00:47:16.920 --> 00:47:20.199
it's everywhere. If you go to my TikTok, I have

816
00:47:20.320 --> 00:47:24.519
it there. DM me leave a comment. I'll show you exactly.

817
00:47:24.639 --> 00:47:26.719
But if you join my school group, it's a step

818
00:47:26.800 --> 00:47:30.159
wise fashion. Start here, do this order the test. Here's

819
00:47:30.199 --> 00:47:32.599
how you get your results. Join my school group. It's

820
00:47:32.639 --> 00:47:34.719
all right there and just start at the start here

821
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and move and move forward. And you if you join school,

822
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I look at that. I always see the messages. I

823
00:47:40.079 --> 00:47:44.320
always respond. So that's how you can kind of stay

824
00:47:44.360 --> 00:47:46.880
a little bit closer is join the school group, and

825
00:47:46.960 --> 00:47:49.559
I have different courses and things in there, and I'm

826
00:47:49.599 --> 00:47:52.440
building it all the time. So uh, but I'll see

827
00:47:52.480 --> 00:47:55.360
you next Wednesday. Uh, and hopefully I'll see you on

828
00:47:55.440 --> 00:47:56.719
one of the other platforms.

829
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Thanks for joining Doctor Taylor today. If you missed any

830
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part of this show, just check out the podcast wherever

831
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you listen to podcasts. Angeless Blueprint is every Wednesday at

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FOURC dot com. Together, we discovered ancient secrets to better

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health through science and spirituality made for modern times. Until then,

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